Why so? Just think about it, reflect on your life a little. You may be 17 today, a young boy or a girl that hasn't truly seen the world. And then you tell yourself, I'm going to grow up someday and be someone my teachers would be proud of, my parents would be proud of, a person I myself would be proud of. And then you start contemplating about how you're going to reach and succumb that stony path to success. Truth is? You have no idea which is the right one, you just have faith that you picked it.
So what's next in life? College then university then graduate then marry your soul mate? And somewhere in between, you'll constantly say that "Study is the way to go!" and "Who needs a girl when I have my books?" Honestly, not everyone would think that. Most people have already started searching for their Juliet since way younger days. Since the times we were just maturing, still part children. Heck, some little boys were already Casanovas at the age of 6. (Okay I was kidding, but consider it?) While probably 30% of the daily population you see daily think dating is a no-no, the rest are already blinded. Blinded by love. Some to a point they can't wake up.
Girls. We talk about meeting prince charming. Probably a thing about hormones that we're so attracted to the opposite gender, but really. When have we not loved? And the troubled part, how much does he love you? The chase is always the best, maintaining that spark is the hardest. Do you think married couples go through 30, 40, 50 years of marriage perfect? Absolutely not. Life gives you a speed bump to remind you that this is life you're living, life isn't superficial. That's a fact, life isn't superficial alright.
The chase. The period of time when two are the closest. Of course, why would you want to leave a bad impression when pursuing a girl? You want her to like you, to think you're cool, to think you're dashing, to SAY you're dashing. And eventually, want to call her mine. As every one knows, this phase is the sweetest and most alluring. But you see, this isn't the problem. The problem is, can the boys continue this?
Some people tend to forget. Some people are just reluctant. But dear the male species, never give in. Never quit. Remind her every day, every forsaken second available, that she chose the right one. Whether you're THE one, that's up to fate to decide. But let her know she has chosen the right one.
So what exactly is my point? People change, humans are bound to. And on those dark nights, it is faith that keeps us going. So this is a message to all girls out there, if you ever read this, don't give up on him just because he needs a good night's sleep. He's probably tired from you running all over his mind all day. (okay cheesy.) Don't blame him for hardly spending time with you all of a sudden, he could be cooking up a surprise. And for the times you feel like giving up, have faith. Because he will have faith in you to be stronger than giving up halfway.
So,
Someday, you'll learn that love isn't everything. Faith is.
(just some thoughts, no biggie.)
Yours truly.